It All Starts With Birth: Part 1
Wondering why the one issue you have worked on for YEARS isn't changing?
Birth can be traumatic even if it wasn’t actually “traumatic”.
It's about bringing a soul from a completely different place and integrating it here on Earth.
Most of you did not have the ideal birth. I am not just talking to the mothers. I am talking to ALL OF US.
All of us were birthed. All of us have the memory of that birth stored somewhere in the body. Most of you, if not all of you reading this, did not get to come into the planet the way you wanted.
There are agreements and contracts, decisions made before we even come here. From "up there" it is all divine and makes sense. From a human perspective, it seems confusing and unpredictable. We don't want to come at this time, we don't want the family we're being placed with, we're not ready, we don't feel ready to be a human, and so on. In our human form, we fight this process and don't understand Earth. We don't understand our families.
We feel stuck and scared to show up. Scared to be too much. These core issues tracing back to our agreements and then stored in our subconscious.
Then we are incubated in a womb. We absorb everything from our mothers and our ancestors. Beliefs, patterns and psychosomatic issues that aren't even ours become our armor and our way of being. As little babies, most of us would do ANYTHING for the mother and the womb that is growing and feeding us. Our survival depends on this. We think we are helping our mothers so we take all of their stuff and make it our own. Again, more issues that we are unaware of stored deep in our subconscious.
And then the birth.
This rarely goes how the mother wants and especially not how the baby wants. Unnecessary interventions, anesthesia, traumatic births that bring out deep core survival wounds. Feelings of being scared, out of control, inability to surrender to the process, long labors, and poor communication in the birth room. The baby isn't ready but is forced to come anyway. Mother isn't ready but baby is. Maybe time spent in NICU away from mom. The list goes on.
Again all stored in mother and baby deep in the subconscious.
For YOURSELF you might have stored deep wounds in one or more of these three areas.
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For the MOTHERS, you might have stored deep wounds around not being ready to be pregnant, your pregnancy, the changes in your body, the birth itself, becoming a mother, entire life changes, breastfeeding, bonding with your baby, or not bonding with your baby.
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For FATHERS witnessing your wife traumatically birth your child can trigger you in a way you are not taught to lean into or express. Suddenly being vulnerable and completely in love holding your child for the first time. Or not being there for the birth at all.I haven't even talked about what happens when there is not a strong masculine holding a space for the birth process.
Add the transitions: from another realm to Earth, from the womb to actual birth process, from fetus to a human taking its first breath, from not a mom or dad to suddenly you're a parent.
There is a high potential for stories and processes to be stored deep in the body and subconscious around any or all of these steps.
Understanding how you were conceived and birthed can change HOW you are showing up today. It is important to address ALL aspect so that you can show up in the world the way you desire.
